Not all wax is created equal. Seriously. When I started my candle-making journey, picking the right wax was a big deal for me. Why? Because of me and my loved ones, and my two dogs.The last thing I wanted was a candle that looked pretty but was secretly filling the air with toxins... So, after a deep dive into the candle world (hello, late-night research rabbit holes), soy wax became the only choice. And here’s why it should be yours too.
Soy Wax vs. The Other Guys
Ever burned a candle and ended up with black soot on your walls or a mysterious headache? That’s probably paraffin wax doing its thing. Paraffin is made from petroleum (yep, the same stuff in gasoline), and when burned, it releases toxins like benzene and toluene—both of which are linked to respiratory issues and can trigger allergies, asthma, and skin irritation. Not ideal, especially when you have little ones or pets hanging around.
Then there are blended waxes, which are like the mystery meat of the candle world. A little soy, a little paraffin—who really knows? These blends often market themselves as “cleaner” but still sneak in additives and synthetic chemicals.
The Soy Wax Difference
Pure soy wax, on the other hand, is:
✅ Clean-burning – No black soot, no additives/toxins, just a cozy, guilt-free glow.
✅ Long-lasting – Burns slower than paraffin, so you get more candle for your cash.
✅ Eco-friendly – 100% renewable, biodegradable, and sustainably sourced.
✅ Better for sensitive noses & skin – No harsh chemicals = a safer space for everyone.
As someone who’s extra mindful about what goes into my home (thanks to my daughter’s sensitive skin), choosing pure soy wax wasn’t just about aesthetics—it was about peace of mind.
What This Means for You
When you light a Relit Yourself candle, you’re not just getting a beautiful scent. You’re getting a safe, high-quality, toxin-free candle that you can actually enjoy without worrying about what you’re breathing in. Plus, no more scrubbing black soot off your walls. You’re welcome. 😉
Bonus Tip: Not All “Natural” Candles Are Created Equal
Just because a candle says “made with essential oils” doesn’t mean it’s actually clean-burning. Many brands use essential oils but blend them with paraffin-based waxes or artificial additives that cancel out the benefits. At Relit Yourself, we use high-quality fragrance oils that are paraben-free, phthalate-free, and safe for your space—so you get an amazing scent without the hidden toxins.
Don't worry, in our March blog, we’ll dive into the truth about candle scents and what to look for when choosing the best fragrance for your space!
Final Thoughts
Not all candles are created equal, and the wax matters more than you think. If you’re looking for a candle that burns clean, smells amazing, and won’t mess with your air quality (or your pet’s tiny lungs), pure soy wax is where it’s at. And lucky for you, that’s exactly what we do here at Relit Yourself.
Ready to make the switch? Check out our hand-poured, eco-luxe soy candles here.
Stay Relit!!
Why We Choose Pure Soy Wax (And Why You Should Too)
